At first I would confront the betrayal and it ended up in a fight every time with no resolution and an end to the friendship. Betrayal is an unfortunate characteristic of human nature and even your closest friends can be quick to betray you if aroused by envy. I look forward to reading your articles again sincerely, Sherry, Hi there and a warm welcome back! Why? He is now single so I don’t trust her motives. As I was dealing with this I had to repeatedly go to the Bible for some advice. It is over and she has moved on with her new lover and I’m stuck dealing with the hurt while she is happily moving on . Silvana. Dear Eunice,

I have to continue to work with her because she is my boss still. That is the best way to handle this for me.When I read to forgive, I fine that so hard to do because they just turn around and do it again. let me explain. thank you for sharing your story , It just reaffirmed what I knew but need to listen again. The disappointment and hurt sets in because you’ve realized your friendship or relationship or the circumstance wasn’t as good and solid as you had thought. However, some relationships are toxic and hurtful, and when those hurts are large and deep, we may need to let go of relationships that are just plain bad for us. Hello & Welcome! It doesn’t mean that everything in the garden is rosy and that you have to transcend into some kind of ethereal plane of enlightenment. Your post was very helpful. i was hurt not by my enemy but the people i treated right.
Did we say something wrong? I came here reading after feeling betrayed by a friend who i felt used me to build his business and has now outcast-ed me, I although I should admit i have made some mistakes as well, but reading your story made me feel, what I am feeling is nothing compared to yours..good luck friend..hope everything turns out right for you…, Never went through this in 37 years of me life but ome thing I I learned that it comes from the closest one you ever expected. She previously worked as an administrator for NXT, a high school Christian youth group.

It will help you in letting go. I have lived with and taken care Of him and my mother all these years where other daughters have done nothing. Looking forward to more of your writing. I had to watch their union blossom.

But if you are going to carry on with the relationship you do need to understand why the betrayal happened in the first place to prevent it from happening again. Express your feelings. Yet one sibling in particular drips with envy at any suggestion of success. How do you get over a terrible betrayal? It was so timely, definitely God speaking to me (us) through you! I’ve had thoughts of throwing them under the bus, exposing them or catching them…but I’ve since let it go. but lessons learned. I normally don’t comment on posts or blogs but I feel like you understand.

Just sayin’ …….. I’m not a young chicken, but this article helped me very much to with coming to terms to being unexpectedly back stabbed, out of the blue. The question is how can you forgive him? Sometimes the worse betrayal comes from silence. So sad. When I encounter nasty people or people who betray me, I always ask myself, “5 years down the road, when you look back to this period, will all these matter?” Inevitably, the answer is always, “Nah… all these won’t matter at all. didn’t see it coming what whatsoever but learned a lot. When I worked in the prison, I had to search for tools to overcome challenges brought to me by others. The following sums up my situation in a nutshell “Betrayal is an unfortunate characteristic of human nature and even your closest friends can be quick to betray you if aroused by envy. This, alone, made me someone to be wary of for her. Close to 1 year has passed. It has helped. YOU CAN’T REACH YOUR GOAL BY STAYING IN THE PAST. That doesn’t mean we post every feeling and thought about it all over social media or blab it all over school. I didn’t have any understanding why she didn’t like me. Once again, an excellent article – nothing beats having ‘been there’ to write from the heart. I was expecting at least a card, a Xmas card, a snail letter, a call. I will comment from an older perspective and some adult psychology. Then Dad thought i wasn’t going to look after Mum (stroke victim) for 1 night so he could go to football with youngest daughter. Apart from being initially shell-shocked by what has happened, you will have to come to terms with how you really feel and find a way to mitigate the damage already done. I feel really betrayed and violated to think that whilst I was out she was going through my belongings trying to make out I’m a terrible person. People in this economy are harsh and do not see the value in others. Hope it has gotten better. Again, so glad you are back. I was falsely arrested in Georgia when my ex wife lied. One day it will heal. Getting over a betrayal takes time.

We look internally at all the things we did wrong. We affectionately call each our our security blankets. Apart from being initially shell-shocked by what has happened, you will have to come to terms with how you really feel and find a way to mitigate the damage already done. I went on about my business. It sucked my time and energy. Did you allow others to constantly cross boundaries, or borrow money from you? I spent a long time saying, “That never happened” or “That wasn’t me” or “I never said that” before I realized the futility of it.

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